Book
Review: Necessary Endings by Dr. Henry Cloud
By: Brian E. Pauley, FSA, MAAA
We put a lot of thought and energy into the
things we need or want to be doing. In fact, we often take on more than we have
the time to realistically handle. Here is something to think about: Have you
considered what you should stop doing? In other words, are there endings that
you need make in order to achieve what you want in life and business?
- Are there
relationships that are not adding value to you anymore?
- Are there
products in your company’s portfolio that are average, but not performing well enough
to keep around?
- Do you have an employee that isn’t meeting
your expectations and yet, you somehow believe that if you try one more trick,
he’ll “get it”?
Endings are a necessary part of life, but we
often avoid them or mess them up. That’s what this book is all about. In this review, I want to highlight two of
the models presented in this book.
Pruning
Great landscapers know that rose bushes
produce many flower buds. Left untouched, the bush will produce a few great
flowers, a lot of mediocre ones, and even end up with some dead branches.
Landscapers perform what is called pruning - removing buds, flowers, and
branches in order for the plant to flourish. Our businesses and personal lives
are no different. In order to get the results we want, we have to strategically
prune – remove whatever it is in our business or life whose reach is unwanted
or superfluous.
In order for you and your resources to reach
their full potential, you should prune:
1) Things
that are taking resources away from something with more promise.
2) Things
that are “sick” and are not getting better.
3) Things that are “dying”
The book illustrates the practices of GE
under Jack Welch’s leadership as good examples of pruning the above in
business. I believe that the concept of pruning is a good model for businesses
to think about and practice. This type of thinking and practice fits nicely
into the “Strategic Insights and Integration” Competency of the SOA Competency
Framework, which calls for organizations to “anticipate trends and
strategically align business practice with broader organizational business
goals.” If organizations are to do this effectively, pruning will be
necessary.
The Wise, Foolish, and the Evil
This section of the book discusses the
difficult subject of how to deal with people. Do you engage with people
assuming they are just like you? Do you engage with people exactly the same
way? As this model explains, not everyone is like you and you cannot deal with
all people the same way.
- Wise People – They take feedback well
and learn from their experience, using it to make adjustments and improve. They
take responsibility for their performance, avoiding excuses and the blaming of
others. The great thing about wise people is that talking to them helps,
allowing you to justifiably invest your time to help them improve.
- Foolish
People – They don’t take feedback well. They adjust the truth so that they
don’t have to adjust. It does not make sense to keep trying to change this type
of person’s behavior. You must set clear expectations and hold them accountable
to change.
- Evil
People – You may have a situation in which someone is out to hurt you. They
are not reasonable, and you should avoid them.
I believe this is a useful framework for
dealing with people. Organizations have a reputation for not being great at
dealing with people. But to succeed in our jobs, particularly if you are in
management, you need to develop your skills here. If organizations are going to
compete with other professions, we must show leadership. And since leadership
is influence, organizations need to be able to demonstrate to Senior Management
that they are capable of making the right and tough calls in more than just
analytical matters.
I recommend this book to organizations interested in growing
their leadership. The book presents sound, easy-to-understand models that can
be applied to both business and personal situations.